It's often said that children learn best through independent play, but how can you facilitate this while keeping your little one safe? This is where the concept of a "Yes Space" comes in, a term coined by Janet Lansbury, known for her advocacy of the Magda Gerber RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers) approach. Below, we'll delve into a "Yes Space" and why it can be a valuable framework for baby-safe independent play.
Here are some key features of a Yes Space:
It is an enclosed spaceA "Yes Space" is a designated area within your home that is enclosed to ensure your child's safety. It's a space where curious explorers can roam freely without constant supervision. It often entails a gated area in a room of the home that is near the kitchen or family room, where you spend most of your time gathering.
It’s not meant to be a "drop and go" zone:While a "Yes Space" should be 100% safe where they could theoretically be left alone, it's not intended to be used that way. It is often used with floor chairs where you can sit close by to offer your presence and engagement when needed.
It does not advocate for toy rotationA Yes Space should provide a variety of skills-based toys that remain consistent. While toy rotation has its own set of benefits to consider, the RIE approach emphasizes giving young babies a sense of order. Keeping the toys consistent is seen as a respectful way to satisfy their need for predictability. It doesn’t mean you would never make a change, but you wouldn’t go out of your way to frequently rotate.
Why try it
Setting up a safe and stimulating play environment makes you less likely to interrupt your baby’s play with constant "no" or "don't touch that" commands. This reduces power struggles and supports their earliest drive for self-directed play.