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What to say to passersby who ask you to cover up while feeding your baby

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Written by Emily Greenberg
Updated over 6 months ago

Your right to breastfeed your baby in public is legally protected in all 50 states. Not only do you have a right to feed your baby in public, but you also have the right to choose whether or not to use a nursing cover.

So, what do you do if passersby tell you to cover up? Carry on! If you're comfortable engaging back, here's a short list of sample scripts to better educate onlookers:

  • "I have the legal right to nurse my baby in public, and this includes nursing my baby covered or uncovered."

  • "Not all babies latch effectively under a cover, which is why all breastfeeding mothers are legally protected to feed in public with or without one."

  • "How to feed my baby isn't up for debate, and the way we are feeding is protected by law."

  • "Please respect the fact that I am actively feeding my baby. If you are unsure about breastfeeding rights, I encourage you to research it on your own time and not in a way that disrupts a crucial feeding session between a mother and baby."

  • "Your personal feelings about breastfeeding do not trump that breastfeeding is protected by law. I will continue to feed my baby because it meets an immediate need for him to thrive."

  • "In the same way, I have no right to tell you to chew food with a blanket over your face; you cannot tell a mother to put a blanket over her baby's face while eating. Nursing uncovered is protected by law."

You've got this! And remember, breastfeeding in public is not, by default, a confrontational experience. These scripts are in the rare event that you encounter a naysayer. Many breastfeeding mothers encounter plentiful support and encouragement in public, too.

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