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The role eye contact plays in bonding with your baby
The role eye contact plays in bonding with your baby
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Written by Emily Greenberg
Updated over 2 weeks ago

Have you ever noticed how your baby seems to light up when you make eye contact with them? That's because eye contact is a powerful way to bond with your baby. It's a way of communicating and connecting with them deeply.

Here are some of the benefits of eye contact for bonding:

It helps babies feel secure and loved.

When babies make eye contact with their caregivers, they release oxytocin, a hormone that promotes bonding and attachment.

It helps babies learn about their surroundings. When babies look at their caregivers' faces, they can see expressions and emotions, which allows them to learn about the world around them.

It helps babies develop their communication skills.

Eye contact is a crucial part of early communication. When babies make eye contact with their caregivers, they learn to take turns, listen, and express themselves.

It helps babies develop their self-awareness.

When babies make eye contact with their caregivers, they learn to recognize themselves as individuals.

How to make eye contact with your baby:

Make eye contact often.

The more you make eye contact with your baby, the more they'll get used to it, and the more they'll enjoy it.

Hold your baby's gaze.

Don't just glance at your baby when you make eye contact with them. Hold their gaze for a few seconds.

Smile and talk to your baby.

When you make eye contact with your baby, smile and talk to them softly, soothingly.

Make eye contact in different settings.

Don't just make eye contact with your baby when they're calm and happy. Make eye contact with them when they're fussy, tired, or hungry. This will help them learn that you're there for them no matter what.

Be patient.
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Some babies are more interested in eye contact than others. If your baby doesn't seem to be interested in making eye contact, don't worry. Just keep trying, and they'll eventually get the hang of it.

Eye contact is a powerful way to bond with your baby. Making eye contact often and in different settings can help your baby feel secure, loved, and connected.

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